It taught me the right balance or flow, so that i'd have time to think while not coming across as 'slow'. But after hearing some ted talks and podcasts I realized that people do naturally take breaks in conversations/talks to think about what they're saying. I used to get nervous and speak quickly, which led me to stay stupid things. Listening to podcasts will help you learn speaking styles. Writing is essentially 'thinking in a way that expects other people to understand it.' Thinking is similar too, but when you think it's only for yourself. Practicing writing will allow you to essentially practice 'speaking', since it's a similar mechanic. This will allow you to let irrelevant thoughts pass, so you can focus on your main point. However, I've had a similar problem, and this is how I've personally dealt with it. It is very difficult, and requires a lot of practice. There's a lot more that goes into this, but it's mostly learned by trying to summarize your ideas, walk through some of the sub-points that you summarized, and on-the-fly asking yourself if your current thoughts are relevant to the current conversation. The only way to really get good at this is to ask yourself if the current "intrusive" thought is relevant to your main point. It takes a good deal of time to figure out what you're going to say next, vs. Now, when you start talking about the topic, you'll start having more thoughts, right? Organizing thoughts while you're speaking is an. ,", where the ellipses are the thoughts you'll come up with as you start talking about an individual topic. As the conversation progresses, bring up one of the ideas you're summarizing. In this case, it's that "I've been cooking, but with mixed success". However, you should try to start with the simplest, most open-ended summary you can, and work down from there. I've fucked up with baking banana bread and pies I've been cooking my own things (dinner) this week with mixed success. So rather quickly, you have to summarize these thoughts. There's a whole lot you want to say, but not a lot of time to organize it, right? I'm assuming that this is similar to what's happening for you. Wanted to make banana bread, but bananas got infested with fruit flies Thought apples were cheaper than they were (but still excited for pie!) Here's the thoughts that immediately, wordlessly burst into my head after like three seconds:Īte five guys this week (sad, wanted to cook that night) "What have you been doing for dinner this week?" Let's say someone asks me what I've been doing for dinner this week. I'll try to put into text how I do this, as it's a bit hard to explain. When you're in a conversation with someone, before you say a single word, try to identify the "main idea" of your thought and how you feel about it. On my side, it's due to struggling with the constant stream of thoughts. I do the same thing, but I'm not sure if it's for the same reason. Guy with ADHD, so I feel you on organizing thoughts.
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